And I can… #poetry #art #love #uganda

 

you ask me what I do

so many hats sit in a corner

I point…

some are dusty

others can no longer be worn

I’m tired…

paper leaves scatter

rose petals crumble with age

misunderstood…

children I have loved

stories I have told

one heart…

no value a head shakes

pennies fall from my pocket

hope hangs …

trial and error

at times I want to give up

but one word…

inspires me to try

ignited and refreshed

by LOVE!!!

 

 

I dedicate this to my dear friends / family in No. Uganda. Your love is not based on aquisition of things, a degree, a profession. It is given freely. That is the kind of love that God has for each of us.

 

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Free from Misconceptions #poetry

walk on the beach

would this make me perfect in your eyes

conforming to your image of a box?

though I’m more round than square

I admit for years I tried

I go about altering the way I am

once I’ve changed

there will be a wizard

who wants me to change back again

intelligence isn’t in season

creativity so blase

inarticulate all the rage

through I cannot see the reason

alas I must accept who is me

look you square in the eye

is it the rise of dawn that you see

or just empty shackles???

Today the prompt at Poets United is Acceptance – do you accept yourself as the wonderful person you are???

In Love (with words) a blog

Love: Common but so misunderstood

Love is such a common theme in writing, in poetry, in life- yet so misunderstood. Why?

What is love?  Why even test the waters when most likely someone is going to get hurt? Wouldn’t it just be safer to live in a “love” void our entire lives? Maybe. BUT -Our beings have a space or a black hole. This space clamors to be filled with love, acceptance, purpose. There are so many types of love -will one type do?

Greeks Define Love

Look at the Greeks they understood love and it’s depth. No way could one word define love.

They used five words:

  • Eros – self explanatory (need I say more?)
  • Storge – affection  the love for a family member
  • Thelema – desire to be revered in achievement (writers understand this one)
  • Philia – friendship / loyalty
  • Agape – the almost out of reach sacrificial love (CS Lewis’ definition “Caring regardless of the circumstances”)


Work your way up to the difficult aspects of love

Maybe that’s the thing- we need to look at the many facets of love. A person may not be great at the Eros kind of love, but  soars at Philia. Agape may be on the skids, but Storge is at an all time high. Love though elusive wants to be discovered. So maybe start at the easier aspects of love like Philia. Think -first date- Philia. Second date (we’ll see how the Philia goes on the first date). Well if you are only aiming for one date what the heck go for the Eros.

I recently spoke with a widowed family member. You’d think by seventy that a person would have the whole “love thing” down – right?? Well for some I gather it’s like going back to “square one.” Interesting that people made it through with the first or second marriage and at seventy are behaving like they did as teens.

What’s up with that? I guess these people didn’t study enough Greek in school.

I think when I am seventy I am going to stick to Thelema – it seems rather safe

***You might say I have the whole love thing figured out – can you please post a blog and enlighten the rest of us.